Wowza! Thats it.time does fly by.
To think It took an ‘interventionist’comment from Taver to remind me i haven't been here in awhile.
Its still all the same excuses, work ,family, children,making others happy and forgetting yourself! But aint those really excuses???
It hasnt been too bad though; if i do say so myself….
Well,in celebration of our anniversay,i would like to share this thoughts here…enjoy!!
10yrs, 10 lessons so far , still learning😁
Most people will tell you Marriage is hard and indeed I kid you not,it is HARD.🙄🙄,especially when you are raising kids on the side.it is also one of the best experiences one can ever have.(when the going is good)
I remember telling myself,if i can stay for 10yrs with this man,then I believe Marriage is for me( wasn’t particular about that at a point in my life). Long story short,the first year, I was ready to pack my bags back to my fathers house.
It was all so strange,not being with my parents or siblings,all i could think of was going back home lol😂😄😁😁
FastForward to now, i dont want to go back home again,its a forever ride with my handsome Bobo Adeniyi Adeigbe, my Sweetheart, gentle giant(when only me knows you are not😛😛).
Thank you for always being there for us, for always wanting the best for us.
As i prayed for you this Morning,your headship, your Kinship shall not be overthrown,may God continue to bless you with wisdom to sail his Ship,amen!
Lessons:
1) Let God Lead…, thats never too hard right? even when we have had a quarell and all,i will go to God and say sorry for displeasing him while also asking him to sort things out for us ,that doesnt mean i wont still argue that it was neeyees fault anyway😅😂, Our father is ever loving and caring,we know he got our backs.
2)Love each other with all your Flaws
On this lane, you will see alot of ‘my Boo’, my this ,my that, (maybe before marriage,my husband never posts anything😛😫)when you get married, omo,most men forget all that o,they are thinking of rent,school fees etc,inshort,i learnt not to expect a complement from neeyee😄😆,he gives it o,but in his own way,you need to learn to understand how your hubby expresses himself.
Example:
Neeyees intention:To tell you ,you are beautiful
His reaction:did you do your makeup by yourself😅😅😀😂😂😂😂🙄🙄🙄
3)You cant Love him and hate his Family
Inlaws will be Inlaws, we disagree to agree but never put your man in a position where he has to choose, you are all important in his life. ‘do what it takes to keep that bond’
4)Your support system are very important to the growth of your home, choose your support system wisely. (Thank you all,you know yourselves)
5)Avoid keeping secrets…he will still get to know anyway🤩🤩🤩
6)Your first two years are your bonding period - make the most of it! mantain a limited no. of families and visitors as much as possible, use protection if you dont want the children to come in too early.
7)You get closer and wiser as you grow in years.(my MIL will say,nkan kan na ni eyin mejeji) that is,we are both the same, we will often arrive at the same decision without prior arrangement.
8)He’s never going to stop pressing the toothpaste from the middle…you can stop waiting for that now🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤗🤗🤗
9)If your hubby never closes the toilet seat,you are not alone…thats never stopping too.😅😅😅😅🤗🤗🥺🥺🥺This arguent comes up at least once a year.
10) Finally, lets all ‘Be Calming down Ladies😁😁😁😁😁😁😁. Everything will be okay😍😍😍
Happy 10th year Anniversary to us Baby, we going higher!!
Love you endlessly.
*Thank you grandma canada, for our outfits,cake and all,we love you
